tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2855305520683501636.post8330394699847894774..comments2023-11-03T05:08:01.249-07:00Comments on Peony :: Love: First comes marriage, then comes...Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12633056996927758780noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2855305520683501636.post-39234579689454067562008-10-17T07:05:00.000-07:002008-10-17T07:05:00.000-07:00I so understand. Both of our parents are like, "Um...I so understand. Both of our parents are like, "Um, how much longer before you start pushing them out? We are getting old you know."<BR/><BR/>Jeez. We can't even decide if we want a puppy. That should say plenty.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2855305520683501636.post-49639596617837686732008-10-16T13:07:00.000-07:002008-10-16T13:07:00.000-07:00Okay, you tell Nick-knack that just because you're...Okay, you tell Nick-knack that just because you're in your 30's doesn't mean that you start WANTING them any more!!! ;-)<BR/>In reality, what it is is that you realize that if you do possibly want kids at some point, that point ain't too far away. There's all kinds of studies that talk about how you should have your first child before the age of 35 to reduce birth defects and problems..... um, yikes!! That give me 2 years (and 4 months). <BR/>I've always thought that I wanted kids.... someday. Like you, I always felt too young and not ready for them (not to mention not being married!). But now, facing my mid-30's in just a few years, I'm realizing that the "some day" I always thought about is closer than I thought. <BR/>It's not that I just really really WANT one right this minute. It's just that I realize that my time for putting it off is becoming shorter...<BR/><BR/>I wouldn't rush into it, though. Take your time and enjoy being young!! (Not to imply that I am OLD... just sayin')Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18209533406055486161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2855305520683501636.post-18498387782584901412008-10-16T03:44:00.000-07:002008-10-16T03:44:00.000-07:00I'm so glad my fiancé's sister just announced her ...I'm so glad my fiancé's sister just announced her pregnancy so that I can deflect that question at/after the wedding with a quick, "well, let's let Feline have her little one first..."!Cate Subrosahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11371172824707301749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2855305520683501636.post-85612514967436586152008-10-15T12:35:00.000-07:002008-10-15T12:35:00.000-07:00Take your time...there is no need to rush into par...Take your time...there is no need to rush into parenthood. Enjoy your time alone together while you can because once you have children your life will change completely. My Fiance has two very sweet little boys that I love to death but I'll be honest it isn't always easy. Date nights have become a top priority! If you decide to have them I'm sure you will be a great mother! AmyJean too! ;)JennyLeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09906552108581550958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2855305520683501636.post-3708561681922561742008-10-15T10:50:00.000-07:002008-10-15T10:50:00.000-07:00I am the same way. I love kids and i'm great with ...I am the same way. I love kids and i'm great with them... i just worry about me being a mother. Being an aunt, i can leave my lovely crazy nephews and niece at their home when the day is done... <BR/><BR/>But i figure - one thing at a time, right? lol.AmyJean {Relentless Bride®}https://www.blogger.com/profile/10648725099262152263noreply@blogger.com